Category Archives: Parenting

Today’s Top Gadgets That Make It Easier to Raise a Family

Parenting small children is such hard work, it is impossible for most parents to cover everything that needs their attention. Most of the time, you have no choice but to let a few things slide, and hope for the best. If you’d like greater control, you need more help. There are a number of inventions out there that make things smoother for the overstretched parent.

An accurate, baby-friendly thermometer

It’s proven hard to design a baby thermometer that’s convenient to use, safe for babies, and yet accurate. Manufacturers have tried every idea from contactless designs to ear-and bottom-temperature designs without too much success. These designs always leave something to be desired. The pacifier thermometer is an all-new take on the challenge, and it could be the best idea yet. It’s a thermometer disguised as a pacifier, with a digital readout at front. The main selling point is how easy this design makes it for the baby. Not having to undress the baby in the middle of the night can only mean fewer sleep disruptions for parents, as well. Even better, the pacifier design is a full-contact design that offers far greater accuracy than contactless designs.

An electric toothbrush

When your baby gets his first few teeth, you need to take good care of them. Cavities are not uncommon at this age. Yet, little children don’t understand what’s being done to them, and don’t play along. Electric toothbrushes are not only convenient, they are a lifesaver. Taking good care of your baby’s teeth can help ensure oral health much later in life. You should check out a few electric toothbrush reviews before you make a buying decision, however. The quality tends to be all over the map.

Make sure you know where every kid is

A GPS wristband for every kid is a great idea; you always know where your kid is. A tiny GPS tracking device slipped into your kid’s pocket, however, can be even better; your kid won’t know it’s there, and won’t take it off. Companies such as TrackR StickR make little GPS-enabled tabs that you can put into anything or stick on anything. You can use these to do more than keep track of your kids. With one of these tabs stuck on your wallet, for instance, you’ll never misplace it ever again.

Make those veggies more interesting for your kids

Children love Ramen. It isn’t the most nutritious food, of course. What if you could turn the veggies that they hate into Ramen, however? Appliances such as the Brieftons NextGen Spiralizer do exactly that. They shred anything from carrots to cucumber into thin and long spaghetti-like strings. It just could fool your kids into thinking that these are likely as tasty as noodles.

A pocket nanny

With the number of things that you need to stay on top of taking care of a baby, it can be particularly hard knowing what you’ve done at a given point, and what you’ve left out. A device that helps you remember every responsibility that you have — from diaper changings to feedings and baby naps — can be very convenient. Pocket nannies are a new product category that help with multiple alarms and reminder lists.

Get a baby monitor that’s really attentive

A regular baby monitor is useful, in that it helps you tell what goes on with your baby when you’re in another room. What if you want closer supervision? If your baby is a few months old and at risk of rolling over, you would have to worry about his ability to breathe. If this were to happen at night when you were asleep yourself, you would want to know immediately. A baby movement monitor can help. You clip the little device to your baby’s diaper; it sounds an alarm if there is no sign of breathing for 10 or 15 seconds. If there is a problem, you’ll know immediately.

With these useful gadgets helping you and your kid, you’ll find that you don’t need to be around for everything. You’ll have the gift of time.

Naomi Phillips writes about family life; the temper tantrums, technology, time management and so much more that each mother juggles daily in this modern world!

No Manual Provided: How to Hit the Ground Running as a New Parent

Wouldn’t it be nice if new babies came with a instruction guide? Unfortunately, that’s not how parenting works. New parents do have some natural instincts that help them and their new baby adjust to each other, but is that all it takes to be a good mom or dad? In the interest of promoting happy families in Canada and everywhere, we are pleased to present the following advice for brand new parents.

The first days and nights with your new baby

When you first bring a new baby home, they do little more than eat, poop and snooze. This is a good time to catch up on lost sleep. Once your baby becomes more active, finding time for a nap of your own may seem quite impossible.

“Swaddling” is a parenting concept that’s been around for as long as babies have been being born. The idea behind swaddling is to recreate the snug security your baby felt prior to birth. When you gently but firmly wrap your baby in a comfy blanket with their arms against their sides, you help them relax and sleep soundly.

Swaddling is especially effective for fussy babies who tend to throw their little arms and legs about when they are upset or uncomfortable. Cranky babies are often lulled to sleep when they are placed in a child seat and given. Many modern cars, like the Dodge Grand Caravan, offer ample room for baby seats while also allowing for extra room to help parents with strapping their little ones in, something that you can’t do as easily in most sedans and SUVs.

Why is your new baby crying?

Some experts say that a crying baby is a bit like a smoke alarm. You know something’s wrong, but just from the sound, it’s impossible to tell if there is burnt toast in the kitchen or if the whole house is burning down, notes Parents magazine. 

Sometimes, the reasons your new baby is fussing and crying is obvious. Check for a wet or soiled diaper, and make certain baby’s bottom is clean and dry. The truth is, many babies are super fastidious and will lose their minds at the first hint of a wet diaper.

Hunger is another reason newborns cry. If your baby just ate and is still fussy, they may have a touch of colic. Toting your baby in a “football” carry position with their belly against your arm may serve to alleviate their discomfort and reduce crying jags.

Things about new babies you might not know you know

Humans have a great capacity for instinct. For instance, most adult humans find it impossible to ignore a crying infant. We are designed to care for the most helpless among us, and newborns certainly fit that description. When a baby fusses, our natural reaction to cuddle and rock them goes a very long way toward ensuring peace in the household, says the Child Development Institute.

Now that you’re a parent, try to relax and enjoy your new position. Your baby doesn’t know you’ve never done this before and is counting on your to fulfill their every need. As far as your baby is concerned, you are an expert at this parenting business.

Victoria Williams is a Mom of two incredible kids, if she does say so herself! Vicky is keen to promote positive parenting and shares her views through her articles.

Setting a Good Example: Should you Drink Alcohol in Front of Your Children?

There is little wrong with having a few drinks in a social situation and many adults like to let their down for a few hours after a busy week at work, but if you regularly drink booze in front of your kids, is that the right example to be setting?

We all know the devastation that some families can feel when a loved one has to get seek help from the Alcohol Recovery Centre, or any other similar support network for people with drink addiction problems, so could you be sending out the wrong message to your kids, if you drink in front of them?

Underage drinking is a significant issue

In a fair proportion of developed countries, underage drinking is a significant issue and in the United States for example, the Surgeon general estimates that almost nine million children and teenagers, between the ages of 12 and 20 to be specific, can be classified as underage drinkers.

There is no question that many teenagers are hard-wired for a bit of risk taking as they explore boundaries and look at try and developing adult habits, which means that there is always a potential temptation there to try some illicit drinking.

If you are a parent, the question you might be asking is whether you might be setting the right example about alcohol consumption, when you drink in front of your children on a regular basis.

Role model

Children are constantly learning from their parents and you could take the view that having a drink in front of your children gives you an opportunity to talk about the consequences of alcohol and underage drinking in particular.

There are a number of respected figures who provide guidance in this field, that take the view which is basically that drinking alcohol around your children is generally acceptable, provided you behave responsibly when doing so.

It is actually a chance to be a positive role model for your children and show them how to develop a healthy respect for drink. The message that you are trying to get across is that you can enjoy an alcoholic drink without resorting to drinking too much and too often.

It is always advisable to set some pretty firm ground rules surrounding alcohol usage in the house and talk to them about the consequences and issues relating to underage drinking and excessive consumption of alcohol in general.

Use your influence

The majority of children take their behavioral cues from their parents, which means that you have a great chance to influence the way your children view alcohol and what is considered to be acceptable and what is not, when it comes to drinking.

If you are drinking regularly as a way of unwinding after a hard day at work, take a moment to consider what sort of message that might be sending to your children, who are watching and learning from what you do and say.

Drinking every night after work at home, could easily be interpreted by your children as a message that you need to consume alcohol in order to be able to unwind. It should be remembered that most teens do have a respect for their parents and they will normally benefit from a frank discussion about alcohol and by following your lead, if you display a healthy attitude towards drinking and setting clear limits.

Reading your child

As a parent, you know your children better than anyone, which means that you can normally spot any potential issues surrounding the use of alcohol and raise concerns where necessary.

It is important to be actively involved with what they are doing and whether they are showing any signs of developing a problem with alcohol.

One of the ways that you can prevent them from potentially developing a problem with alcohol is to talk to them about drink at regular stages during their development. Before they reach their teenage years, children are actively learning about their bodies and their health, by the time they hit their teens, the emphasis is more about exploring new boundaries, which is they need to have a good understanding and take responsibility for their actions surrounding alcohol.

Underage drinking in the house should not be encouraged and it would be wise to try and steer your kids away from parties where you suspect or know that alcohol might be available to them.

Every family is different when it comes to how you gauge the impact of drinking in front of your children, but one thing is certain, you need to try and send out the right message and emphasize the negatives surrounding underage drinking.

Elizabeth Fisher works in the community care field and has worked closely with local schools to teach kids about substance misuse. She is now reaching out to parents in her articles as she discuses kids and alcohol and drug use and educating them on the facts.

4 Effective Tips to Help Children Cope with Domestic Abuse

Children who experience domestic abuse need understanding, love, and support. Violence in any form is truly traumatising and those innocent people who witness it should be saved and protected. It should never be tolerated and as parents, you must take good care of your children all the time.

Once your children become victims of domestic abuse, you must act upon it immediately. You are responsible for protecting your children, so make sure to help them cope with such violence. It is never your children’s fault to be abused by anyone. With this, you must understand their situation fully and take actions accordingly.

The struggle that your children experience is real, hence, you must consider the following tips to help them cope with domestic abuse:

Create a support system

Experiencing domestic violence makes your children feel isolated. They might feel helpless and that they are alone in this battle. However, you can change this notion by building a support system that will help them cope with the abuse. You may seek outside sources or support groups that provide child care. This way, your children can have a fun and healthy outlet and they will never feel alone anymore. You may also apply for an ADVO order to prevent further violence that may occur.

Communicate to your children

When your children finally open up about experiencing domestic violence, you have to trust what they tell you. This is a serious matter and it takes a lot of courage before they can talk about it. Therefore, you have to listen to them and tell them that what happened was not okay. As a parent, you need to make your children feel loved and never blame them for the abuse. In addition, you have to sit with them and let them express their emotions without any judgments.

Empower yourself

As parents, you must be your children’s role model. Be that person who loves and takes care of himself despite of the traumatic experiences that come along the way. Your children need you the most in times like this, thus, you have to be strong for them. When they see you empowered, they will also have the courage to get through this painful experience. A supportive and strong relationship between you and your children will be built and that’s one of the most important things you all need at this point.

Strengthen your children’s sense of security

The moment you learn that your children were abused, you must prove them that you are by their side no matter what happen. You have to show them that you are available to provide them comfort at all times, for this is what they truly need. They must feel secured always and never leave them.

Overall, domestic violence can happen to anyone. There is no need to blame one another for causing such thing, rather help your children to cope up by considering these tips mentioned above. Simply let them feel more loved and secured, despite the distressing experience that happened.

What It’s Like Being a Mom of Five

Since Joey was born, I have a lot of people that ask me what it is like being a mom of 5.  I can actually sum my mom of 5 life up in one word….EXHAUSTING.

Yes, I love each of my beautiful children with all my heart and soul, but I would be lying if I told you they don’t drive me nuts from time to time.

We finally have a family picture where everyone is looking at the camera, no one is crying or throwing a fit.

I am lucky though, having 2 teenagers in the mix is a great help and both of them are great in doing their part around the house and they help with the 3 little ones as needed.

Of all the things we do the one that is the most exhausting is leaving the house with all of them.  Shoot, it’s exhausting just leaving with the 3 little ones.

There is a lot that goes into heading out of the house with a toddler, a preschooler and school-aged kid.  I have to pack a diaper bag and make sure there is stuff for everyone including diapers, wipes, extra clothes, sippy cups, snacks, and a few things to keep them entertained depending on where we are going.

If we are going somewhere like the mall, we need something to keep toddler safe yet independent like the stroller and sometimes a baby harnesses reins for Joey since he likes his freedom and isn’t afraid of anything.

If we will be eating while out of the house I have to remember to pack bibs, crayons and other little oddities to keep them all happy.

Planning family activies can be difficult as well. First I have to find things that will interest all of the kids and of course, then I have to find budget friendly activities so we don’t go broke.

Since I work from home, I also need to make sure I have my phone with me at all times along with a charger because it never fails that a last minute deadline comes up or an email needs an immediate response.  I also like to have it along to snap pictures of the kids throughout the day.

Home life with all 5 kids is just as exhausting. It never fails that someone is crying, tired, hungry, or a diaper needs to be changed. At meal time, there is always at least one kid who is either not hungry, not a fan of what we are having or refuses to eat.

Even though having 5 kids is exhausting, you can bet I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world.  I don’t get a lot of me time and I put myself on the back burner most of the time but  I love everything about this life, exhausted or not and I still manage to get a few hours of peace and quiet every night after they are fast asleep!