There are certain stereotypes that are associated with single women on Valentine’s Day. If we had a penny for every time a single woman has been represented on Valentine’s Day crying in a bathrobe and sniffling into a tub of ice cream as they watch a hunky teen idol say ‘I love you’ on the TV – well, let’s just say we’d never have to write another blog for as long as we lived! We’re here today to show you that just because it’s Valentine’s Day it doesn’t mean you should feel sad; this day should be about celebrating love, having fun and enjoying yourself!
- Remember, being single is awesome!
You might feel deflated and sad at the fact you’re single on Valentine’s Day, but remember, being single isn’t all that bad. It’s actually super fun and fantastic to be independent and be able to do all the stuff you want to do. Use this time to focus on yourself and do everything you can now that you’re single! Focus on the benefits of being free; you’re not chained down by someone else, live a little and celebrate!
- Don’t compare yourself to people in a relationship
Remember, every couple has their issues. Even the happiest looking couples, who are celebrating Valentine’s Day with lovey-dovey selfies and romantic rose covered celebrations have their own problems. Feel grateful that you don’t have these issues! Romance does NOT equal happiness.
Also, be easy on yourself. Lots of people feel ashamed that they’re single on Valentine’s Day or like they’ve somehow failed – we’re sure that we don’t have to tell you that that is utter nonsense! Your worth should NOT be dictated by your relationship status. It’s hard as every film, book and song seems to suggest otherwise but this just isn’t true. Most people truly discover themselves when they aren’t too busy being distracted by a relationship. Treat yourself, love yourself, be yourself.
- Treat yourself
Make today about how much you love yourself! Buy a gorgeous dress from your favourite online outlet or, better yet, get some new designer shoes from the Mr Shoes webstore. Always wanted to get tickets for that show on at the West End? This is time to get them. Always wanted to eat at that fancy restaurant but felt guilt just thinking about how much it costs in there? Today is the day. Go for mega-shopping spree and get yourself a knock-out party outfit or some rock-solid, attitude oozing Dr Martens to show the world you mean business this Valentine’s Day.
- Pamper yourself at a spa
You are the focus of today! Treat yourself with a facial or a massage at a luxurious spa. You will feel relaxed, at peace and gorgeous after your pamper day – what could be better? Indulge and feel decadent this Valentine’s Day with a mud bath or a lavish body wrap session.
- Galentine’s Day!
What are your other single friends up to this Valentine’s Day? Go out and celebrate with all your friends at your favourite bar or restaurant. If you’re looking for something a little different, why not have an evening at a comedy club or a trip to an art gallery? Drink some cocktails and surround yourself with the people you REALLY love this Feb 14th. Unite and rejoice being single.
- Be cheeky and get a bestie to do all the ‘Couple’s Deals’ Valentine’s offers with you
It’s annoying that you can’t take advantage of all the 2 for 1 spa deals floating about your inbox right now. That doesn’t necessarily have to be the case though… choose a partner in crime to be your companion as you indulge in all the half off couple’s massages on offer!
- Host an Anti-Valentine’s Evening
Have a themed Anti-Valentine’s Day party and invite all your single friends to laugh at the sentimental nature of this love-sick holiday. Deck out your party pad with all the bells and whistles… but minus the love hearts, pink streamers and lovey-dovey accessories. Dress yourself up in your best little black dress and drink some well-deserved bubbles with good friends whilst blasting some Single Ladies Beyoncé beats! This is the way Valentine’s Day should be spent.
- Get out of town
Maybe you just want to get away from it all this Valentine’s Day, which is absolutely understandable. Maybe you’ve just broken up with someone and you’re looking for some peace and quiet away from the bombardment of flower bouquets, ‘I love you’ animal cushions and honeymooners parading the city in utter infatuation with each other. No, now is not the time for that.
If that’s the case, why not take yourself on an adventure to somewhere you’ve never been before. Go to the country for a day trip filled with quiet, self-reflection and serenity. Stay overnight at a country cottage and make it a relaxing weekend getaway. Or you could go and discover a new nearby city and visit all the sights and attractions it has to offer. This is a great way to spend the day without any loved-up Valentine’s reminders getting in the way.