Shadows and Dreams: 3 Japanese Essential Classics on Desire

Looking for an introduction into Japanese classics from the last fifty years? If you’re tired of Murakami’s metaphysical prose and want something a little darker, here are 3 classic tales you might appreciate:

The Woman in the Dunes by Kobo Abe

One of Japan’s foremost masterpieces, this novel won Abe acclaim, bagging the prestigious Yomiuri Prize in 1962. Pop Culture captures the plot of the narrative adequately: a professor arrives somewhere in a remote area filled with sand dunes. He’s there to do research on a particular type of beetle and the villagers offer him a shelter, one that happens to be at the bottom of a sand pit. He uses a rope ladder to descend to the pit. There, he finds a house, and a woman, who spends her days shoveling sand into buckets which the villagers raise out of the dune. The location of the house is significant: one must keep shoveling the sand to keep the pit from being filled. Otherwise, the whole village will drown in the dunes.  The next morning, the rope ladder is gone. He’s effectively trapped in the pit. 

What happens next is a story of how the man tries any means to escape and when all that fails, how he gradually adapts to his imprisonment. Every day we see him shoveling in dirt, in much the same way we work every day of our lives. It’s a brilliant microcosm of modern society, where days are spent in never-ending toil. When he and woman engages in sex—perhaps in defiance to their circumstances, a way to subvert the monotony and order of their lives in the dune—we can’t tell whether it’s genuine love or basic need.

By the end of the novel, the man finally manages to climb up the ladder. But we see him unable to flee to his freedom. If his spirit has already been crushed, we don’t know for certain. Only that his inability to run and his far away stare seems to suggest his mind is elsewhere, not on escape but on the woman who had been taken out of the dune just moments before, in a panic, in an emergency because of an extra-uterine pregnancy. In the end, The Guardian makes a poignant observation: does he refuse to leave the dune now because he’s found tenderness and belongingness in the pit, in that small universe, compared to the vast world he could explore when he was free? If you haven’t read this one, go to your favorite online bookstore now for a copy. The Nook makes it easy to download eBooks, especially the classics. If you’re ready for a story that leaps off the page, even after fifty years since it was first published, Kobo Abe’s masterpiece will leave you aghast, hopeful, devastated, gripped in the tale’s melancholy and adult edge—but it won’t leave you disappointed.

House of the Sleeping Beauties by Yasunari Kawabata

If you’re not quite ready for a novel yet, this novella may be up your alley. Among one of his finest works, the House of Sleeping Beauties is a fitting addition to Kawabata’s line-up of exquisite works like Palm-of-the-Hand Stories, Snow Country and Beauty and Sadness. The main character, an old man named Eguchi, spends his nights sleeping beside the sleeping beauties. The girls are drugged and regarded as living toys. Eguchi, however, regards them as symbols of beauty and life. Japan Times notes that the main character’s preoccupation with sleeping is way to the old man transition from life to death. Complex, beautiful, and a hauntingly deft prose all make this a novella worth reading. If you want a lyrical exploration into life and desire, there’s no better guide to the terrain than Kawabata.

Seven Japanese Tales by Junichiro Tanizaki

When you don’t have time to bury yourself in a book but still want to experience the joys of foreign literature, short stories are a great compromise. Kirkus Review describes the selection as discrete tales. On such story is the Bridge of Dreams, a favorite mostly because of its subject matter: incest and memory. It revolves around a Tadasu, a young man who loses his mother at 5. Soon after, his father brings in a stepmother. At some point, he grows closer to her when she allows him to suckle at her breast, in the same way he did with his real mother. Years later, his stepmother gives birth, but the child is sent away and the relationship between Tadasu and his stepmother only grows more complicated and the narrative, more dense. While the subject delves into obsessive sexuality, Tanizaki remains in control of the language. There’s nothing prurient in the book and readers would find themselves grappling with amazement at the way the story unfolds. Consistently though, there’s an almost demonic energy in the stories, a creeping disquiet—you’re not quite sure what’s happening but you know it’s something perversely out of this world.

If you want an introduction into Japanese classics on desire, these three books are a great way to immerse yourself in the genre—and the growing world of eBooks makes it easier than ever to find them.

 

 

 

The Ultimate Bottle Feeding Guide

How you choose to feed your child is one of the important and earliest choices you make for them. When you give your baby a bottle you want to make sure you are doing it safely and smartly, but where do you start? What kinds of bottles should you buy and how many do you need? Well, don’t worry! Here is the only guide you’ll ever need to bottle feed!

To Get Started

One of the first things you need to know is what you need! No matter what kind of bottle you choose you will most definitely need:

  • A minimum of six bottles
  • A minimum of six nipples
  • Sterilizing equipment
  • Bottle and nipple brush

What Type of Bottle?

No doubt if you’ve taken a stroll down the baby aisle at any store you are well aware of the numerous amounts of options available when it comes to bottles. Which is best? That’s really a personal preference. Here’s a breakdown of the types available:

  • Basic baby bottle. These come in a variety of size with no real bells and whistles, just a basic baby bottle. They are good because they can be used with most warmers, sterilizers and carriers and also come with nipples and lids most of the time. The drawback to these is that your baby may swallow air as he or she feeds.
  • Anti-colic bottle. No one is really sure what causes colic, but for some babies it’s an upset tummy. These bottles are designed to reduce the amount of air your baby swallows as they feed. They do tend to be more expensive than basic bottles and may not work to reduce colic in all babies. Plus, some have a lot of parts to clean.
  • Sterilizer bottle. A bottle like this can be popped in the microwave to be sterilized, which makes them really convenient. They can be more expensive, though and require careful handling during sterilization because they get hot!
  • Disposable bottle. These are pre-filled bottles that have a cap and a nipple attached. After you’re done with them, you throw them away. This makes them convenient when you’re out and about but it’s not a very environmentally friendly way to bottle feed.
  • Glass bottle. These are made of glass that is tempered, and is a great alternative for parents that don’t want to use plastic products. They’re environmentally friendly and durable but are heavy and can obviously shatter if dropped. They’re also more expensive.
  • Silicone baby bottle. Honest offers a silicone baby bottle that has the advantage of being free of plastics but also won’t shatter like glass. These are also anti-colic and easy to clean.

Sterilizers

If you bottle feed then you will need to sterilize, even after washing the bottle. Sterilizing serves to kill germs that could cause your baby to have an upset tummy – and no one wants a baby with an upset tummy! The four ways to sterilize are:

  • Boiling – good old-fashioned boiling will get the job done; just throw everything in a pot of boiling water for about 10 minutes. This is an inexpensive and convenient way to sterilize, but it can put a lot of wear and tear on the bottles and nipples.
  • Cold sterilizing – this is when you soak everything in a special sterilizing solution. It’s a great method when you’re traveling and is inexpensive but the solution has been known to have a strange smell and it’s not a very fast method since the bottles must soak for at least 30 minutes.
  • Steam sterilizing – this uses a special electric steamer to steam up to 6 bottles at a time. It’s quick and might even be able to be sterilized your breast pump parts too. It’s not an easy method when you’re on the road, though and can be a bit expensive.
  • Microwave sterilizing – special containers are available that fit inside of your microwave that will sterilize bottles. It’s fast and convenient but also may not be compatible with all bottles and nipples, so you have to check.

A Note about Nipples

Nipples come in different flows, sizes and materials. You need to match the flow with the age and development of your baby, but finding the right nipple for you baby usually involves a lot of trial and error. Some babies may prefer a nipple that mimics a mother’s nipple, while some may like latex or silicone nipples. There are also anti-colic nipples to reduce the amount of air you baby gets while feeding and even disposable nipples for travel.

No matter what style of nipple you choose, you will always need to be diligent to check for cracks or breakdown in the material. A damaged nipple could become a choking hazard for your baby.

In the End

Only you and your baby can choose what is right. Just be prepared to try a few different kinds before you find one that works. Don’t sweat it too much, because before you know it you’ll have this whole newborn baby thing figured out!

Save on Gift Cards with Cardpool + $50 e-Gift Giveaway

With the holidays coming up, our family tends to give and receive quite a few gift cards. I find that while gift cards aren’t personal gifts, they are still perfect when you need one of those last minute gifts to give.

We spend a lot of money on gift cards throughout the year and I am always looking for a way to save money on them.

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Shopping for a gift card is easy, just search for a retailer that you like, find the amount you want to purchase and add it to your cart.

Being the big Starbucks fan that I am, I am all about saving money on my purchases so I turned to Cardpool for my most recent purchase and I was able to score a $25.00 gift card for only $23.27

I know it’s not a huge savings, but for me, knowing I didn’t pay full price for something always makes me happy!

What’s great about Cardpool is that gift cards can be combined with holiday sales & coupons for even MORE savings so be sure to buy them before you plan on doing your shopping!

Visit Cardpool.com and click “Buy Gift Cards”. Search for your favorite brands, or browse gift cards by category. You can buy both physical gift cards and electronic gift cards.

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Luvs Momoji – the Keyboard for Moms + $100 AMEX Giveaway – Ends 12/23

I don’t know about you, but I use my cell phone for most of my communication these days. It’s great to be able to answer and email on the go or shoot a text message off to someone.

One thing that has been a great addition to my late night texting game when my kids are awake and taking over my bed, is my new Momoji Keyboard by Luvs.

The Momoji Keyboard by Luvs is a must have for moms. It is great for those moments when words just are quite enough. From the perfect momji when your child has an icky blowout to a cup of coffee to let someone know you need a pick-me-up and right down to a package of Luvs you can send to your significant other when they are out and about to remind them to grab some diapers!

Get the Momoji Keyboard

You can get the Momoji Keyboard by Luvs for free in your app store. It’s easy to download and install and it is even easy to use!

 

Send Coupons via Text

With the Momoji Keyboard, you can easily send coupons via text for extra savings at the store!

We Love Luvs

Now that we are on our 5th (and final) child in diapers, we know which diapers work best for which kids and at which stages in their life. For Joey, our last kiddo in diapers, Luvs have worked best for him. He tends to fill his diaper quite full while sleeping and thanks to Luvs with Nightlock and their ultra-leak protection with money-back guarantee, we have less of those leaky diaper nights to interupt our sleep!

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Can Football Fans Help Joe Journeyman?

If you are a football fan, you will love to hunt for Joe Journeyman!

Joe Journeyman Volume 1 tells the story of “NFL legend” Joe Journeyman, “the only player to play for all 32 NFL teams.

Featuring hand-drawn, original artwork, Joe Journeyman takes you on a search adventure as Joe and his friends travel from one NFL team to the next. Readers are challenged to find more than 500 things – including characters, historical and city references, and tons of wild and wacky things – as they explore each NFL team’s two-page spread.

Of course, being the diehard Green Bay Packers fans we are, we loved following Joe on his journey through Titletown.

Joe Journeyman Volume 1 takes you to the homes of the New England Patriots, Baltimore Ravens, Green Bay Packers, Washington Redskins, Detroit Lions, Minnesota Vikings, Houston Texans, Cincinnati Bengals, Chicago Bears, New York Jets, Indianapolis Colts, Buffalo Bills, Philadelphia Eagles, Dallas Cowboys, New York Giants, and Pittsburgh Steelers. 

Not only is this book fun to look through with the kids, adults enjoy it too. There is so much to hunt for and the pictures are just amazing! I’m already looking into getting a copy of the Green Bay Packers spread to display in our rec room when it is done.

If you are a fan of football or are looking for a gift for someone who is, pick up a copy of Joe Journeyman: Volume One today!

 

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